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Crush Vs Love Interest

Everyone has had a crush on someone sometime in their life, some work out perfectly while others not so much. Not so many have experience a love interest because they were lied to about "falling in love" Recently I have learned that having a crush is not ideally good for a stable relationship; many people fall in love with their yes rather than with their soul. There was one moment in my life where I I fell in love with this person because of her passion for God and I dragged this feeling to its grave; this was a moment when I was a little naive when it comes to having a love interest ( I didn't know it at the time) Through out the years I had 2 friends whom I'm became very interested  in them and we moved close the phase of actually having a relationship but I also dragged those feelings to their graves because I wasn't sure of what I wanted. 

Recently I had a crush and a love interest but not with the same person. The crush came and I started developing feelings towards her without consulting with the author of Love; I started to like what she likes, I even bought a shirt with a superman logo! The Author of Love showed me that a crush has no foundation on which a relationship will flourish.  

Feelings come and go,  but steadfast love remains; no matter what the circumstances show, true love will never fade and will forever remain as the focal point of life. If one has no love, from where will we get compassion? from where will we get hope? from where will get valor? God embodies this which we call Love because For from Him and through Him and to Him are all things.(Rom. 11:36)

Having a crush is a worldy idea, while having a love interest  is of God. 
A crush is through the eyes, while a love interest is through the soul. 

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